The journey to becoming a surrogate mother is a profoundly generous act that comes with many considerations, particularly how it will interact with your professional life. For women exploring surrogacy while maintaining employment, understanding what benefits and support might be available from employers becomes crucial. This guide explores everything you need to know about surrogacy benefits from employers, from legal protections to practical workplace considerations.
When considering becoming a surrogate, one of the first questions that might arise is whether your employer offers specific benefits for surrogates. While traditional maternity benefits are common, dedicated surrogacy benefits aren’t always as robust.
Potential employer benefits may include:
It's important to note that benefits vary widely between employers, with some progressive companies developing specific surrogacy policies while others may handle arrangements on a case-by-case basis.
The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) provides eligible employees with up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave per year for specific family and medical reasons, including pregnancy. However, how FMLA applies to surrogacy specifically can be complicated.
As a surrogate, you may wonder:
Generally, the physical aspects of pregnancy and recovery still qualify under FMLA protections, regardless of whether you're the intended parent. However, the "bonding time" portion of parental leave for surrogacy arrangements may not apply since you won't be taking custody of the child.
Health insurance represents one of the most significant considerations for employed surrogates. Key questions include:
Many employer health plans don't explicitly address surrogacy, which can create ambiguity. Some insurance policies may contain exclusions for surrogate pregnancies, making it essential to review your benefits documentation carefully or speak confidentially with HR.
While there isn't federal legislation specifically addressing surrogacy employment rights, several existing protections may apply:
Be aware that legal frameworks around surrogacy vary significantly depending on which state you live in, with some having comprehensive surrogacy laws and others offering little or no specific legal guidance.
Approaching the conversation about becoming a surrogate with your employer requires thoughtful planning. Consider:
While not legally required to share all details of your surrogacy arrangement, providing enough information for your employer to understand your needs and timeline is generally beneficial.
Some forward-thinking companies have begun developing specific support networks for employees undergoing fertility treatments or serving as surrogates. Working with experienced surrogacy agencies can also provide additional support resources to complement what your employer offers.
Navigating surrogacy while maintaining employment requires understanding available benefits, legal protections, and practical workplace considerations. While dedicated "surrogacy benefits" from employers are still emerging, many existing policies and protections can support your journey.
Before committing to becoming a surrogate, thoroughly research your employer's policies, have candid conversations with HR, and develop a comprehensive plan that addresses both your needs and your professional responsibilities. With proper preparation, you can balance the generous act of surrogacy with a fulfilling career.
At Hatch, we understand how challenging it can be to navigate the complex intersection of surrogacy and employment. We've guided countless surrogates through these discussions with their employers and helped them access the support they need. Our team is always available to answer your questions about employer benefits and provide resources to make your surrogacy journey smoother while maintaining your professional life.
Disclaimer: This article provides general information but does not constitute legal advice. Laws regarding surrogacy vary by location. Consult with a legal professional familiar with surrogacy law in your state for personalized guidance.